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Comment by rainy_in_pdx at 03/11/2022 at 02:43 UTC
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Better to have them and not need them than to need them and not have them.
Comment by xx2983xx at 03/11/2022 at 15:07 UTC
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I gotta say for me, being on top would have been the absolute worst. For YEARS I hated and avoided being on top. It is still to this day probably my least favorite position, although I have embraced it more. You are very exposed. It is easy to get self conscious about your body and your movements. You feel like all the pressure is on you to move "correctly" or in a way that is pleasing. I would have been very resistant to being on top for my first experience. You should absolutely let her choose what she is most comfortable with.
Comment by [deleted] at 03/11/2022 at 18:18 UTC
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Lube isn’t just for people with “issues” who “need it”. It makes things less painful and more enjoyable in general. There should be no value judgement attached to it.