Comment by kittenpantzen on 27/01/2025 at 22:59 UTC*

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View submission: R/Askmen discusses getting swarmed by women

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If what I see in the online game space is any indication, most men just genuinely don't like women. They want to have sex with them, but they don't actually like them.

Edit: for further clarity, I'm not just talking about your call of duty lobbies. I play online role-playing games, and my characters are in dad guilds, and these are married fathers that I'm talking about in a lot of cases.

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Comment by Zyrin369 at 28/01/2025 at 00:01 UTC

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Thats what I felt as well considering all the "Ball and chain/ I hate my wife jokes and such that make you question why they are even married in the first place"

Dosnt help that their role models also seem to feel the same way as well, I think Andrew Tate even said something to the effect of how he dosnt even want to have sex with them or something.

Comment by onlyfornews1374728 at 27/01/2025 at 23:40 UTC

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There's definitely a huge chunk of guys like that, for sure. I know a roommate of a female acquaintance of mine who talks about women, including her, like that. It's like he can't understand that relationships don't work as a one-sided transaction where the man gets sex, food, and companionship but has to give nothing in return. It's like all they want is a mother they can have sex with.

Comment by generalburnsthighs at 27/01/2025 at 23:56 UTC

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"To say that straight men are heterosexual is only to say that they engage in sex (fucking exclusively with the other sex, i.e., women). All or almost all of that which pertains to love, most straight men reserve exclusively for other men. The people whom they admire, respect, adore, revere, honor, whom they imitate, idolize, and form profound attachments to, whom they are willing to teach and from whom they are willing to learn, and whose respect, admiration, recognition, honor, reverence and love they desire… those are, overwhelmingly, other men. In their relations with women, what passes for respect is kindness, generosity or paternalism; what passes for honor is removal to the pedestal. From women they want devotion, service and sex.

Heterosexual male culture is homoerotic; it is man-loving."

Marilyn Frye, The Politics of Reality: Essays in Feminist Theory

Comment by angry_cucumber at 28/01/2025 at 03:17 UTC

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my SO mentioned how she was a little intimdated when we met, because I had, for the most part, only female friends.

it took her a bit to realize they are actually friends, not just women I'm talking to trying to fuck.

the males in my life have all drifted away, but for the most part, the women have stuck around, which given I'm kinda terrible, surprises me.

Comment by nocogirly at 27/01/2025 at 23:28 UTC

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I’ve had this theory for a while

Comment by sultanpeppah at 28/01/2025 at 13:59 UTC

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One of the single strongest indicators that someone is statistically likely to be a MAGA chud is being a divorced and single adult male.