126 upvotes, 9 direct replies (showing 9)
View submission: R/Askmen discusses getting swarmed by women
Every single men's focused sub that I have seen has been a cesspit of toxicity with complete lack of self-awareness.
It's so awful for a while that I thought it was all some kind of weird Russian PsyOp, until I realized, that no, there are actually men that stupid in real life. The Venn diagram of them and extreme conservative supporters also seem to be pretty similar, surprise surprise.
And please note, when I call them stupid, I'm speaking as a dude in the infatry. We're not exactly the smartest bunch, and we certainly think with our dicks first. But those guys... yikes.
Comment by killertortilla at 27/01/2025 at 23:18 UTC
65 upvotes, 3 direct replies
r/bropill is great, proper support and doesn’t actually exclude anyone. Everyone is a bro.
Comment by kittenpantzen at 27/01/2025 at 22:59 UTC*
101 upvotes, 6 direct replies
If what I see in the online game space is any indication, most men just genuinely don't like women. They want to have sex with them, but they don't actually like them.
Edit: for further clarity, I'm not just talking about your call of duty lobbies. I play online role-playing games, and my characters are in dad guilds, and these are married fathers that I'm talking about in a lot of cases.
Comment by ConsultJimMoriarty at 27/01/2025 at 23:45 UTC
23 upvotes, 0 direct replies
They usually start off with good intentions and get steamrolled by incels, misogynists and homophobia pretty quick.
Comment by RustedAxe88 at 27/01/2025 at 23:01 UTC
21 upvotes, 1 direct replies
r/menslib is pretty good.
Comment by DayleD at 27/01/2025 at 23:05 UTC
10 upvotes, 0 direct replies
Have you tried the 'MensLib' subreddit? They're not a fundamentalist rabbit hole posing as a supportive brotherhood.
Comment by Four_beastlings at 28/01/2025 at 08:50 UTC
4 upvotes, 0 direct replies
/r/menslib has men discussing male specific challenges without blaming everything on women
Comment by Smart_Freedom_8155 at 28/01/2025 at 13:50 UTC
-3 upvotes, 0 direct replies
Right. Whereas the women-only subs are...*not* all or most of those things.
Deranged, angry, hurtful, etc.
Comment by SpecialistElegant554 at 28/01/2025 at 02:37 UTC
-10 upvotes, 0 direct replies
Kinda like twoxchromes and femaledatingstrategy? Lmao.
Comment by test5387 at 28/01/2025 at 03:30 UTC
-9 upvotes, 0 direct replies
It happens the exact same way in the women’s focused subs too.