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View submission: Not into the sex — are we doomed?
So. We totally had this conversation and he tried but I swear he just does not know how or doesn’t have the patience for it. We have never made love. I am not a sissy but I’ve had amazing sex in my life in he simply doesn’t know how. I cannot tell you how much I appreciate this.
Comment by Particular_Sale5675 at 21/01/2025 at 04:08 UTC
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I was thinking that was the case.
For you, it is about the sex. For him, it's about power and control. If he were as obsessed with sex an he claims, he'd have little issue making sure to meet your needs so he could have more of the sex.
It's OK to break up with someone you love. It hurts a bunch of course. But you're far more mature and healthy relationship capable than he is. I still find it sad when things turn out this way.