Comment by crudelikechocolate on 13/01/2025 at 23:49 UTC

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View submission: Girlfriends(33f) submissiveness has me(42M) at a breaking point. Can it be saved? Should it?

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I think a good question to understand is why she wishes you don’t ask for her consent so much.

People who do CNC or free use do it because it is exciting for them. If that’s her reason. That’s fine. You still don’t have to engage in that either. You could just be incompatible sexually.

But if it’s because she doesn’t think she should have a choice or something like that, then it is really concerning and unhealthy

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Comment by Midas_Ag at 14/01/2025 at 04:08 UTC

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That’s a good question I have been beating around the bush about but not straight up asked her. I would be ok I think if it was 25% or so of what it is. But it’s not. I’m kink friendly, but consent is still important.