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Was he as lazy before the baby? He sounds like he sucks. Hope you can get him to step up or at least hire some help for you.
Comment by Front-Economics-5497 at 15/01/2025 at 19:55 UTC
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He was a bit lazy, but I didn’t expect this to say the least. We will be having a talk about this today when he gets home from work. This was my breaking point and I really appreciate all of this feedback. It’s not that I haven’t said anything, I have. But I haven’t forced him or begged him. I will tell him how important I think it is and that it��s better late than never. That I need his help and he needs to bond with the baby and care for him confidently. Fingers crossed he steps up to the plate, or else this isn’t going to work out, because I know we deserve more.
It’s hard to explain, but when you’re in survival mode you don’t realize how much time has passed and how this is really unacceptable. It’s been time enough.