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View submission: Who does diapers?
WTF
I had never changed a diaper in my life until I had to do it blindfolded at the baby shower when they covered a doll in mustard and a good friend of mine had to walk me through it and actually did it really well. Once my kiddo was born I would change them all time
I work 6 days a week and late night shifts like 5pm to 12 or sometimes 1am. My wife breastfeeds and sometimes when the kiddo cries she has me change diaper at night. Usually around 8am or 9am when he has slept enough and won't again I take him with me either to go shopping or play in the living room so my partner can sleep til like 10-11 or so and right now when I have my paternity leave I'm with him the whole day so she can finish her thesis.
I bath him when she showers or when her back hurts and so on. Like doesn't matter if I'm working or not I try to be with my boy as much as possible since he is growing so so fast.
Tell your husband that he has to be able to do absolutely everything to look after your kid because what would he do if for some reason you aren't available.
With kids they are either hungry, tired, have a dirty nappy or need hugs/play/attention (like playing or singing or dancing) and that's kind of it when they get fussy. It isn't that complicated the majority of time just needs energy and the willingness to be there. I'm not saying it's easy or you don't get tired but anyone can do it unless they have some sort of disability
There's nothing here!