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As a woman myself, although being autistic, loneliness for me has always been there. I have a soft spot for men and women who are facing loneliness. I can see both sides. Before I found my long term partner, I felt better by myself than with dating or making friends. This was due to a feeling of discomfort. Men often would make comments about my past and belittle my traumas. Being someone who has a traumatic past, I just couldn’t bring myself to continue opening up to these potential partners. With women, I didn’t feel like I could keep up with the social dynamics and complexities. I felt like I was completely inept when interacting with women. I really do feel for both sides and wish we could both just be open about what is going on. I think it is really hard to provide support for a demographic you cannot understand or relate to. Like the rich providing services for the poor. They just wouldn’t get the nuances of being that specific group of people. It would be awesome to have people who could meet in the middle.
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