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Anecdotally, my wife is reaching out to a vague friend we met at a dog-breed specific Meetup 5 years ago during pregnancy.
I've gotta say - I think the different ways that male strangers and female strangers are treated by default plays into this. I have a mild fear of appearing creepy that sometimes stops me from reaching out to old or distant friends/acquaintances. And sure, that's partly a personal issue that I can and do work on. But I think it's compounded by society too. Men are more likely to be perceived as creepy than women for similar behaviors.
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