Comment by StrangeBid7233 on 15/01/2025 at 20:48 UTC

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While this all sucks to hear all the time and it's hard not to feel insecure about it in some way, it's also important to remember social media is not at all how real world is.

My life experience has taught me that, despite all these being stereotypes, they are far from truth and a lot of my female friends know that.

Bear in mind this is my personal experience with these things and experiences of people I know as I have talked about these topics.

Some of these things are also context based, sex thing, from my view, especially. Men overall are easier to sexually satisfy, while women have harder time reaching orgasm, my opinion is that sexual performance pressure is really high for men due to that, while at same time people (both men and women) suck at communicating about sex, add 2 and 2 and you get why perception is that men are bad at sex. Hell from my experience I noticed that I had way lower bar as to what good sex was for me when it came to my side of satisfaction, and that is probably true for a lot of men.

I know a ton of female friendships that are so toxic, yet appear close and wholesome on outside, and in my circles it seems far more common than toxic male friendships, while at same time every guy I know has at least 1 (and most of us way more) ride or die friends that would drop everything to help you.

If women were happier single than married to men then why do so many of them seek relationships?

Also be careful about that whole data thing, a lot of "statistics" on internet are very skewed polls, remember that on internet negativity sells.

There are issues that us men have, there are issues that women have, there are issues we share, every issue deserves to be heard and validated.

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