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Hi friend,
That makes me sad... That another person would publicly tell you what God's will is for you. He likely has his own conviction or hurt having to do with having kids. If he truly wanted to reach you, I think he would have privately messaged you but sounds like he was more concerned with showing off his "knowledge" and "dedication" to God... Kinda pharisaical if you ask me.
Having kids is such a delicate topic and personal choice (though our society defaults to it not being a choice at all). I often tell God that if He wants me to have kids then He'll have to make that happen because I am not for it. I trust that God knows my heart and if I did get pregnant (just like any part of God's will that I would not choose for myself but God wants), I would go forth knowing He has a purpose in that too.
I totally get into my head about it too sometimes. I feel like such an outlier and I wonder if it'll change as I reach ages of lower to no fertility.
In the meantime, I've got your back!
There's nothing here!