Comment by Tdogshow on 03/02/2025 at 19:24 UTC

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I would agree with the guy you’re replying too. Most people in toxic relationships only see it when they’re on the other side. When you’re in it, you lie to yourself about how bad it is. But where I stated “be intelligent enough to act on your better judgement” comes into play, if it ain’t working out now with the woman, it will only be worse 5 years later and there is a kid now.

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Comment by Lumpy-Apartment1611 at 03/02/2025 at 23:42 UTC

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I agree with your statement. I just mean we have to be more realistic with ourselves and stop projecting on others what we want them to be and really look at who they are if the possibility of a future is there in the beginning.