Comment by Lumpy-Apartment1611 on 03/02/2025 at 19:17 UTC

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View submission: 29M asking for brotherly/fatherly advice

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Hmmmm 🤨not really. If you have not known them long enough to understand that about them or about you, not time to be behaving like you have known them long enough.

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Comment by Tdogshow at 03/02/2025 at 19:24 UTC

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I would agree with the guy you’re replying too. Most people in toxic relationships only see it when they’re on the other side. When you’re in it, you lie to yourself about how bad it is. But where I stated “be intelligent enough to act on your better judgement” comes into play, if it ain’t working out now with the woman, it will only be worse 5 years later and there is a kid now.