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View submission: My boyfriend says I’m privileged
I understand if he mentioned being privileged once for example. However, he’s mentioned it multiple times, especially when discussing how badly his upbringing was. The sad part is all of the money he’s saved is paying for his mother to be taken care of in an elderly facility. She didn’t leave him the house nothings in his name and she has dementia. I’m not dealing with issues like that so maybe it hard to relate but I am supportive.
He’s never been married or engaged. He’s mentioned women that wanted to though but he didn’t because they cared more about obtaining the marriage rather than developing relationship. Which to me is a reasonable take.
Even though I was the one who initiated the relationship, I do think that he may have wanted to mold me. As he once said he would “train me.” Whether that be related to cooking or intimacy and not sure what else. But I found that odd and never had a partner say that before.
I do really appreciate your spicyness and Al of the advice you’ve given.
Comment by Izzapapizza at 06/02/2025 at 07:42 UTC
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“Train you”?! Jesus Christ, run, OP.
Comment by Frequency_Traveler at 06/02/2025 at 07:36 UTC
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Wow. Dude is spending all his money to take care of his mom. You have an absolute angel of a man. Don’t fuck this up, you’ll regret it forever.