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View submission: My boyfriend says I’m privileged
Hey it’s not really so much about who initiated it but more so that he’s almost 50 and acting like someone closer to 18-21. Like there’s no problem with dating older especially at your age. But, being close to 50 with someone almost 30 and showing those behaviors it’s a reason why he’s not with someone older.
Comment by Rubycon_ at 06/02/2025 at 06:22 UTC
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Yeah it's a really really common theme to these age gap relationships where the younger person will say 'actually I pursued him' but it's more like they orchestrate things in the background and facilitate and manipulate and hang back but they are still very much pulling the strings