58 upvotes, 4 direct replies (showing 4)
View submission: My boyfriend says I’m privileged
Same as the ‘you’re almost 30’ thing.
At the core, it’s just plain old negging.
Picking at her, at her self esteem, oh you’re getting old, oh you’re so priv, oh you don’t know anything about the world little child – unlike me, big 46 year old with soooo much more life experience.
It’s condescending bullshit cause he's insecure and jealous and its designed to make you feel like shit. Expecting you to be with him anytime you’re not working, he does that to make your world small. Cut out the visits to family, the drinks with friends – make HIM the centre of everything.
He knows what he’s doing. They always do. This dude gives me baaaaaaad vibes through a screen.
Comment by NoPussInBoots at 06/02/2025 at 05:01 UTC
21 upvotes, 1 direct replies
She may be almost 30 but he’s nearing 50 it should be a wake up call for him to fix his attitude if he’s getting jealous about a woman ~16 years younger than him. It just ain’t it to go through life being bitter.
Agreed. Bad vibes…
Comment by Rubycon_ at 06/02/2025 at 06:24 UTC
6 upvotes, 0 direct replies
Yep he's negging her for sure
Comment by Former_Reputation341 at 06/02/2025 at 05:22 UTC
6 upvotes, 5 direct replies
I’m turning 30 in like two weeks and he asked me how does it feel. I told him well basically you’ve been telling me for the last two years that I’m 30. Trying to “prepare” me.
Comment by UniqueAlps2355 at 06/02/2025 at 12:03 UTC
1 upvotes, 0 direct replies
Absolutely this. Not worth staying with.