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View submission: How big is your social circle?
I relate! I also only have a handful of really close friends (and we aren't even one big friend group; i hang out with each of them independent of one another). Any time i wish i had that "big, fun, party group" or wish that my friends all hung out together....i stop and remember that with large groups, sometimes there can be a lot of infighting, backstabbing, having to choose sides etc. And in large groups, i find it hard to truly connect to people or be confident in being myself, as I'm generally more reserved and let the louder people talk (i get lost in all the big personalities). I get my fix of the "big, fun, party group" when i go to parties hosted by my friends. This allows me to get a social fix without the pressure of maintaining shallow friendships, especially if the other people aren't my cup of tea.
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