Comment by A-Salen on 31/01/2025 at 21:55 UTC

112 upvotes, 4 direct replies (showing 4)

View submission: Welp this is great isn't it? / s

I'd be strongly tempted to change my first name to an initial to force people who don't know to ask or choose to make an assumption.

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Comment by FX114 at 31/01/2025 at 22:01 UTC

81 upvotes, 0 direct replies

They'll just assume you're a man.

Comment by IllConstruction3450 at 31/01/2025 at 22:01 UTC

31 upvotes, 0 direct replies

“Himothy.”

Comment by Rock4stone at 31/01/2025 at 22:49 UTC

23 upvotes, 3 direct replies

My name could go either way. More often than not, people who don't know me address me as "Sir" when they email me.

I only have people ask when they're in person and they can't decide 🤣

Comment by ChefLabecaque at 31/01/2025 at 22:17 UTC

21 upvotes, 0 direct replies

Please choose the letter I then as initial. Since it is also a pronoun.