Comment by margotiii on 09/10/2022 at 15:03 UTC

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Others have offered good advice about career coaching, counseling, and getting on the same page. One thing I noticed reading through this is the tone. You sound frustrated with the situation and with your spouse. It sounds like a frustrating situation, but it sounds like you might be starting to let that frustration win out over empathy for your wife who is having a hard time. It sounds like you’re putting a lot of pressure on her and that probably isn’t helping someone who is burnt out and frustrated with themselves already. IMO FIRE goals come second after the emotional and mental well-being of my spouse.

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