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We have discussed some, but it needs to be a constant reminder and goal we strive for. Need to revisit the overall goal and strategy with her
Comment by JackPAnderson at 09/10/2022 at 02:24 UTC
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We have discussed some, but it needs to be a constant reminder and goal we strive for.
Not to put too fine a point on it, but are you sure that fire is her goal as well? It's sounding like it's a top priority for you, but only a nice sounding "well sure I guess I'd rather retire younger than older. Who wouldn't?" for her.
Also, if she's not seeing a therapist, she probably should be. Something is going on that she can't keep a job, so good idea to get screened for whatever.