Comment by downunderguy on 01/07/2020 at 04:38 UTC

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View submission: Gaslighting red flags

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Can we PM? I don’t know if I’m in one or not. I feel all of these things, but don’t think my partner intends it. Ironically that could just be another effect it has on me. I just don’t know anymore and it’s so upsetting. I have no one to talk to

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Comment by PocketTurnip at 01/07/2020 at 04:48 UTC

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I felt like it wasn't intentional, too. I used to tell myself he could be just trying to protect himself from being hurt again, since he was always playing the victim. So it is possible, but as I stated on another comment, some people really don't realize they're being manipulative. And sure, of course we can!