Comment by TheDankScrub on 01/07/2020 at 02:19 UTC

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View submission: Gaslighting red flags

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Reading this made me realize my ex was actually abusive. I just thought she was a bitch

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Comment by Govain at 01/07/2020 at 02:30 UTC

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Well, they're not mutually exclusive.

Comment by Nevan440 at 01/07/2020 at 05:44 UTC

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It took me four years to realize how abusive my previous relationship was. Four. Years. Then I started reading articles (even took online tests lol). Everything, and I mean everything, matched with my experience. I’m still trying to recover, and it’s really hard to deal with it. I’m grateful that those years made me who I am now and definitely made me stronger, but the price I paid was so damn high.

Comment by [deleted] at 01/07/2020 at 05:38 UTC

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Comment by serrations_ at 01/07/2020 at 05:25 UTC

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¿Por que no las dos?

Comment by TheG-What at 01/07/2020 at 14:27 UTC

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Me too. Holy shit.