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"I was just kidding" is the cowardly defense of every bully and bigot on the planet when they get called out.
My question would be if this seemed like a one-off, or if it was part of a larger pattern for him.
If it's a pattern then, oof, in my experience people like that don't change, they just get better at hiding it around people they need things from.
There's nothing here!