Comment by hoeleia on 09/01/2025 at 14:38 UTC

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View submission: My husband(30m) said our daughter(7 months) looks ugly because she has to wear a brac

I’m exhausted reading this. Who the fuck comments on a child’s “attractiveness” especially their own?? Ever hear that saying “a parent is a child’s first bully”? Your husband is sending the message that it’s okay for people to talk to her that way and diminishing her self worth. You’re not overreacting at all, I’m just glad your daughter can’t comprehend what her father said.

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Comment by GroovyGrodd at 09/01/2025 at 15:02 UTC

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Also, is it showing his feelings towards women, that their looks are all that matters? Or am I reaching? I just can’t imagine calling a baby ugly because of a brace. It changes nothing about the baby. IDK, maybe I’m reading too much into it.