3835 upvotes, 4 direct replies (showing 4)
NOR, the fact you wear braces makes it feel much worse- very malicious and targeted compared to just a bad ignorant joke.
Comment by TricksyGoose at 09/01/2025 at 17:23 UTC
563 upvotes, 1 direct replies
My thought exactly- and since OP has had similar experiences, you'd think he'd be intimately aware of how to navigate verbiage around that sort of thing in order to be as sensitive/kind as possible. The fact that he went the other direction is alarming.
Comment by jwillsrva at 09/01/2025 at 17:18 UTC
142 upvotes, 8 direct replies
What’s NOR mean? That’s a new abbreviation for me.
Comment by StrongTxWoman at 09/01/2025 at 22:17 UTC
2 upvotes, 0 direct replies
And it wasn't a joke. Who's laughing at his joke? Only a bully will say that.
Comment by cellists_wet_dream at 09/01/2025 at 23:12 UTC
2 upvotes, 0 direct replies
His reaction to turn it back on her instead of realizing what a horrid thing it was to say is super messed up. I can never understand why partners like this treat their spouses like they absolutely hate their guts.