Comment by One-Load-6085 on 12/01/2025 at 16:56 UTC

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View submission: Do non-binary identities reenforce gender stereotypes?

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I have never had a sense of being a woman. I am naturally dominant and also I love feminine things... light and dark,black and pink etc. So I have no idea. It is an interesting question one I have pondered before. I wonder why you presume that binary people do have some sense of gender identity. No one I have ever talked to about it IRL does.

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Comment by redroserequiems at 12/01/2025 at 21:15 UTC

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The way I've done it is what feels right. Would you feel uncomfortable if I continuously called you a man or he/him'd you? I wouldn't. Or if you she/her'd me.

You likely do have some sense, you just likely never questioned it or had to examine it because I assume you're cisgender. You feel fine as a default.