Comment by Flexappeal on 12/01/2025 at 16:18 UTC*

10 upvotes, 1 direct replies (showing 1)

View submission: Do non-binary identities reenforce gender stereotypes?

View parent comment

fanatical lunchroom fear toy fine terrific money boat sulky historical

1: https://redact.dev/home

Replies

Comment by SydowJones at 12/01/2025 at 16:36 UTC

2 upvotes, 1 direct replies

Yeah, it can get harsh.

I see these dialogues and arguments as a giant negotiating table and play space where people can participate in the creation of new social arrangements to do with gender.

Change triggers a lot of people.

And a lot of the people coming to that table are already in a freaked out state of mind, having dealt with varying degrees of alienation and trauma due to gender and sexuality.

Gay men and lesbian women have been through a fierce few decades of political, legal, and cultural battles. I've known quite a few who don't want to hear anything about bisexuals. For them, I'd expect that nonbinary and gender fluid issues are beyond the pale.