Comment by Amelaclya1 on 27/01/2025 at 22:40 UTC

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View submission: R/Askmen discusses getting swarmed by women

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I've seen men like this say that they can't trust women to tell them the truth. That any answer we give them is just to manipulate and control their behavior. And that if they ask men they will find something that allows them to get what they want with minimal effort by manipulating women.

They don't want to hear, "wash your ass and do the dishes". They want to hear "women are bitches, here's how to effectively neg them".

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Comment by Realistic_Depth5450 at 27/01/2025 at 22:41 UTC

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Excuse me while I scream like a harpy into the void.

Comment by Belfura at 28/01/2025 at 02:21 UTC

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I’m sure other guys can back me up on this, but growing up women have always been described as “indirect”. And at worst, that would often veer into “manipulative” and “dishonest”. Now in the era of very public gender war, you effectively have a situation where it’s “established” that women won’t tell you the truth.

People have been talking about the effect people like Tate have on men, but they have largely ignored how certain stereotypes have been turned into something people deeply believe in, courtesy of discourse, “testimonies” and a cocktail of clips