Comment by Hurdleflurdle on 15/12/2021 at 23:25 UTC

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View submission: Someone saying you're gaslighting them when you're not is them gaslighting you into thinking you are.

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Isn't that the same though? Either way it makes the victim question its own reality, aka, gaslighted.

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Comment by SigourneyReaver at 15/12/2021 at 23:28 UTC

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Gaslighting makes the victim question their own state of mind.

DARVO is just blaming someone for the shit you're actually doing to them. Like a cheater who complains their SO "violated their trust" by looking in their texts and discovering said cheating.