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View submission: How to critique Self Righteousness without coming off as against "good"
Usually what bothers us most in others is something we are afraid we have. I would start with addressing these things in yourself. And what is your end goal of calling people out? If it's for them to change and see things your way that won't work. You have to meet people with compassion and make them feel heard and accepted first. But you can learn to voice things with vulnerability that makes them think. Focusing on your emotional response to it rather than "I am correct morally and you are not" will yield better results.
Comment by Classic-Obligation35 at 26/01/2025 at 21:13 UTC
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It's more to be able to address the self righteousness part. There are things I believe in, support or agree with but some areas seem to be off a bit, problem is trying to acknowledge and address it is like saying no to the cause.