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View submission: 37F dating after separation, partner with low libido again....
I don't know that I would take this personally, and would probably wait for the bloodwork to come back and see if he has low testosterone or a health issue before worrying about it.
I had a high sex drive till I hit peri, and it nosedived. My healthcare is shit, so no HRT or anything to help with the dryness or how easily the tissues tear, or the fibroids that made sex uncomfortable. I have so many health issues too that I don't want to play around with hormones without being able to work with a doctor. So yours could change in the future as well. Hopefully you'll have an easier time or better doctors than I.
Comment by gooseandjuice at 27/01/2025 at 03:25 UTC
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I know. It's why I haven't said anything to him, and won't. These are my own fears/insecurities. I've been wondering about peri as I have several friends who are going through it and I'm hyperaware. My partner has also mentioned wanting to have kids (I have 2 from my previous relationship and have always wanted to have more) so it's definitely on my mind.