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View submission: 37F dating after separation, partner with low libido again....
I think that you're dragging “stuff” with you from your previous relationship, which you’re basically fresh out of. Now you’re in a new relationship with someone who is trying to get himself healthy in a really significant way, and he’s been meh about sex for one month, and you’re spiraling. You’re allowed to have your own feelings, but you gotta zoom out here. Do you have access to therapy? I suspect that some time with a counselor sorting through your experience in your marriage would be really helpful.
Comment by gooseandjuice at 27/01/2025 at 03:02 UTC
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Yep. Have been in therapy for nearly a year. I recognize it's a knee jerk reaction because of what it was before and don't want to pull him into that so I won't be saying anything to him. I just am afraid I guess.