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View submission: 37F dating after separation, partner with low libido again....
Two people is way too small of a sample to say you’re the common denominator.
He thinks you’re hot, he wants to want you, and he’s trying to do something about it.
Seems like you both need a little grace. :-)
Comment by gooseandjuice at 27/01/2025 at 02:58 UTC
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Absolutely. It's why I haven't said anything other than supportive words (and obviously didn't want to bring up that my ex said the same thing to me). He told me it was a hard conversation to have with me and he had been feeling "less of a man" and he nearly cried talking about it. I told him we are both getting older and things are gonna change and working through these things is where you need your partner so I'm glad he told me. I just....have feelings and thoughts and don't want to add to his mental health about it.