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View submission: Not into the sex — are we doomed?
Your comment has helped me more than anything I’ve heard in my eight years. Of course I don’t talk to a ton of people about it. Thank you
Comment by Ceret at 21/01/2025 at 03:19 UTC*
6 upvotes, 1 direct replies
I’m so sorry. What a tough call to make. I get that you will grieve this relationship. But you have a lot of life ahead and just keep that heart open. If my comment helped that’s purely because its knowledge you already had. All my blessings to you.
ETA: if you’re not familiar with what a degradation kink is, have a chat with ChatGPT and see if the behaviors and vibe fit. You could also learn about where that kind of kink comes from.
Be mindful that involving others in your kink without their informed consent is very much against BDSM ethics.
Comment by Sarsmi at 21/01/2025 at 08:35 UTC
2 upvotes, 0 direct replies
Please don't be so unkind to yourself. Being alone is much better than being with someone who really loves having the kind of sex that you hate. Don't ever put up with stuff in a relationship, it really does hurt you.