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View submission: Not into the sex — are we doomed?
Yes. He can’t come when we have sex and I think this is why. So there is never a finish line.
Comment by Ceret at 21/01/2025 at 03:11 UTC
28 upvotes, 1 direct replies
It sounds like he has a full on degradation kink. To the extent he doesn’t enjoy other sexual vibes. He basically wants to call you filthy things while he rapes you. That’s pretty hardcore and even in the kink scene this is a strong kink. He is actively feeding it with his porn. I simply don’t see how he will ever be compatible with you. And I think you want (and deserve) something quite different from what he’s capable of offering.
Comment by Jonny2Thumbs at 21/01/2025 at 12:55 UTC
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I don't understand how someone can flip from being a decent person on the street to degrading scum in the bedroom. It's a sign of his true nature, and the kind of thing you will think of with disgust when you're over him.
Comment by Jonny2Thumbs at 21/01/2025 at 12:55 UTC
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I don't understand how someone can flip from being a decent person on the street to degrading scum in the bedroom. It's a sign of his true nature, and the kind of thing you will think of with disgust when you're over him.
Comment by Particular-Fee-9718 at 21/01/2025 at 03:25 UTC
1 upvotes, 1 direct replies
How did I know that next bit without asking 😊
Comment by Usagi2throwaway at 22/01/2025 at 08:05 UTC
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Maybe he has a delayed ejaculation disorder? Men with this disorder usually try to overcompensate by being overly aggressive or sexual. It's more complicated than just watching too much porn. Definitely needs sex therapy. But I guess if at his age he hasn't sought help, nothing you can say can make him.