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Simple question, simple answer. Do you like who she is right now? If not… then there is your answer. Don’t try to change her. If she sees a need to change/grow then she will/can but expecting someone to be who they are not is just going to continue to frustrate both of you. Also, she’s gaslighting you and imo thats a blazing red flag.
There's nothing here!