Comment by daneneebean on 14/01/2025 at 01:26 UTC

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View submission: Girlfriends(33f) submissiveness has me(42M) at a breaking point. Can it be saved? Should it?

She’s not completely “submissive” and just willing to go along with whatever you want, since you’ve said in sexual situations when you stop bc *you* feel uncomfortable, she chastises you- why did you stop, she didn’t tell you to, etc. That’s not a submissive character or attitude. That’s a damaged one. She is sacrificing her comfort and sense of self for her partner at her own choosing. She’s self sabotaging. You cannot have a healthy and successful relationship with someone like that especially when they’re not even in therapy to try to improve it. God this girl needs so much therapy and you’re just making it worse by staying with her. It seems like you’re making yourself worse too.

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Comment by Midas_Ag at 14/01/2025 at 04:05 UTC

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I can’t disagree with this.