Comment by Ragdoll2023 on 13/01/2025 at 22:32 UTC

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View submission: Girlfriends(33f) submissiveness has me(42M) at a breaking point. Can it be saved? Should it?

Yeah sorry without her actively wanting to change then she simply won’t. You’re only 6 months in and if you’re frustrated now it will only be worse a year from now. Saying she will be homeless on a year when her sister moves out sounds like she’s trying to trap you into living g together. She can simply get a roommate. I would end it with her as gently as you can but let her know why. Too late for your relationship but may give her the insight and impetus she needs to start therapy and make changes.

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Comment by Midas_Ag at 13/01/2025 at 23:32 UTC

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She mentioned the living situation about 3 times in a 2 week span. The third time I asked her why she was bringing it up, it felt like pressure, and I got a non-response type of response, about how I had mentioned the desire to just buy a mini house and put it on land somewhere, to get away from people. Like, just a passing desire during a conversation about living expenses and housing prices. Nothing serious.

And thank k you for the response..