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Date people for who they currently are, not for who you hope they will become. A lesson I learned the hard way.
Comment by Midas_Ag at 13/01/2025 at 22:13 UTC
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My therapist tells me this, and I even tell my close friends this, but giving advice is so much easier than taking it. Thank you.
Comment by teenything at 14/01/2025 at 09:07 UTC
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this. i've been hurt by someone wanting me to change from day dot. don't do that to a person. And I had a similar past as her, and it is very hard to set limits. that she will keep doing stuff she isn't ok with for you, and it will get to her. it's best u leave, for her sake and yours.
Comment by over_pw at 14/01/2025 at 22:58 UTC
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+1 to the whole comment