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This level of lack of boundary and self esteem needs extensive therapy. If you want to stay together, at least start with couples counseling. But this is not something that you can fix. She has to want to get well.
Also I can promise you that there are submissive women or women that like anal who are not like this. Part of being a good sub is to be able to communicate about limits
Comment by Midas_Ag at 13/01/2025 at 22:18 UTC
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I've mentioned therapy to her a few times, as I am in therapy. She just says "yeah, I probably should", then nothing. to clarify, she does like anal, loves it, but as you may know, it's not always gonna feel good for whatever reason. In those times, she just wants me to power through it, to keep going, she can 'endure' it.