Comment by DarthLokiii on 13/01/2025 at 22:05 UTC

33 upvotes, 1 direct replies (showing 1)

View submission: Girlfriends(33f) submissiveness has me(42M) at a breaking point. Can it be saved? Should it?

She cannot be in a healthy relationship if she can't even consent to sex. She needs massive amounts of therapy.

It sounds exhausting being forced to parent your significant other because they refuse to make any choices for themselves.

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Comment by Midas_Ag at 13/01/2025 at 22:16 UTC

-6 upvotes, 2 direct replies

Not trying to be argumentative or pedantic, but she will tell me yes. But she has also said even if she's sick, or even if she's not feeling well, she'll never tell me no. If I want it, take it. And yes, it is. There comes a point where you want to know what the other person wants, to indulge them, do the thing they want to.