107 upvotes, 4 direct replies (showing 4)
I didn’t read past the fact that she can’t say no. Someone who cannot say no cannot safely engage in a relationship, especially a sexual relationship, with another person. She needs to be single and get real support for this. You need to not be with her and definitely not have sex with her. I’m sorry
Comment by skyoutsidemywindow at 13/01/2025 at 22:06 UTC
53 upvotes, 1 direct replies
Ok I read the rest. No. Break up immediately. Do not keep having sex with her. This is really unhealthy. She needs help but you cannot help her. You can only feed i to her trauma. I’m really sorry that this is true but get out of there immediately. She needs help
Comment by anoeba at 13/01/2025 at 22:09 UTC
29 upvotes, 1 direct replies
Yeah. Seriously I wouldn't be able to have sex with someone like that, it's creepy. Also weird af that she keeps voicing that overtly and repeatedly.
Whatever her deal is, she needs therapy, and also to not be in a relationship right now.
Comment by Midas_Ag at 13/01/2025 at 22:11 UTC
6 upvotes, 5 direct replies
Yeah, this is true. I've told her that just doing whatever whenever, without consent needed, feels too 'rapey', and she just said she wants me to just do. No consent needed. That she wishes I wouldn't ask for her consent so much. (Hey, you up for some fun/sex? etc etc) She literally wants me to just bend her over, pull her pants down, and just go to town. No asking, no anything. Just doing.
Edit: just typing that out feels so wrong, not to bash on anyone that likes CNC.... And it feels different than like that early morning late night sleepy sex where both people just start in.
Comment by 079C at 14/01/2025 at 10:44 UTC
-1 upvotes, 1 direct replies
What an arrogant opinion! Because it’s hard to know what she wants, JUST GIVE HER NOTHING. Just drop all love and sex! If that destroys her – so what? At least we know she’s not being abused – or do we know that?