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View submission: Rocd but without compulsions ? (I think)
Checking, analyzing their physical flaws, paying attention to your negative feelings – all of these are compulsions. Because at the end, it’s to answer the question « am I still in love with her? » And compulsions only fuel anxiety. It’s this anxiety that blocks you from feeling what you’re supposed to feel—sometimes positive, sometimes negative. Feeling something negative doesn’t necessarily mean a lack of love. You need to calm this anxiety to return to a normal state, where you can assess your relationship more clearly.
Comment by ParticularUpbeat9153 at 05/02/2025 at 19:34 UTC
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But it’s weird it’s like I’m not trying to do it, it just happens like the checking and analyzing are just default almost