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View submission: A teen with ROCD.
Trigger warning:
Ask yourself if you can be with her long term. If you would be comfortable with her being your only partner ever. If she actually is what you want from a partner. I had the same thing happen at 18 with my first boyfriend. The knot in the stomach. The constant worrying. It all went away when i asked myself so what would happen if we broke up. In my case there were major incompatibilites in out view of thinking and activities so i somehow knew i wanted something different. I just got the courage to admit it to myself.I know these questions are like intrusive thoughts but i think you should actually respond to them given you are so young. I hope this doesn t trigger you into a spiral. That s what helped me when i was your age. You may have a completely different situation.
Comment by strawberry_psych0 at 05/02/2025 at 14:46 UTC
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Thank you. I definitely want this to work long term! I wanna go to prom with her and go out on trips and spend summer together and all that cheesy stuff haha, I really appreciate ya