Comment by Front-Economics-5497 on 15/01/2025 at 23:08 UTC

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It wasn’t intentional, but I chose to keep the baby and I didn’t force him to be here. We lived in separate states for the first four months I was pregnant and then he decided he wanted to be a part of this family and he moved to be with me and have the baby together. He wanted kids one day, but felt the timing wasn’t right. I couldn’t disagree more, this baby is perfect and came when he wanted to and I welcomed him with open arms. Also, neither of us are so young that it made sense to put it off.

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Comment by dmra873 at 16/01/2025 at 22:19 UTC

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but felt the timing wasn’t right. I couldn’t disagree more

You can't dictate to someone when they are ready or not for children.

he decided he wanted to be a part of this family

then he needs to step up and be a part of it. that includes sharing all responsibilities.