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My husband failed the first four months of our sons life, then one day I snapped and asked for a divorce ( an emotional affair on his part had already weakened our marriage). He asked me to give him a chance, and I reluctantly did. He's a different man now. He changes almost every diaper during the day, spends ton of time caring for our son. He helps with meal time, and helps with naps. Unless your partner as a damn good excuse, there is no reason they cannot assist in caring for their OWN child. If they can't handle changing diapers as a newborn..... They won't survive the toddler potty training trenches.
Comment by Brockenblur at 15/01/2025 at 15:36 UTC
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I’m so very glad that you and your husband have worked your way around to a happier and more equitable place.
Not everyone starts off the parenthood journey hitting a home run, but there is always room for improvement. And it is so important to listen to each other as partners and parents communicate when your partner is trying to communicate their needs! I hope the OP and her spouse can find similar growth