Comment by I-Post-Randomly on 09/01/2025 at 23:53 UTC

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View submission: Yes, Dads Can Struggle With Postpartum Depression—Here’s Why

I've had more than one encounter where I've been openly told that "PPD" cannot exist for dads as "they never gave birth". It is really disheartening.

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Comment by Jealous-Factor7345 at 10/01/2025 at 00:43 UTC

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I'm always kind of torn on this. Like, new dads absolutely can experience depression, anxiety, and all sorts of mental & emotional challenges with the birth of a child. But like... it's not the same thing as PPD/PPA in women. It always seems like there is something almost appropriative about using the same terms to describe the mental health challenges men face in this situation.

Comment by Lavender_Llama_life at 10/01/2025 at 12:59 UTC

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I imagine some of that is backlash from women whose experiences were not met with understanding. Hurt people hurt people, and it’s difficult to break cycles of abuse.

Men can absolutely experience depression from major life changes, including the arrival of a child.