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View submission: What’s the weirdest “unwritten rule” everyone just follows?
I found out the hard way when people ask you that, they don't want a serious answer (unless maybe it's someone you're close with). I don't feel obligated to ask the question back since it's not a real question in the first place (but I may still do so, depending on the person asking).
Comment by IamKilljoy at 05/12/2024 at 23:30 UTC
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Yeah it's small talk. They're not actually trying to be your therapist and evaluate your emotional state. They're just passing the time and being friendly. Not reciprocating the question can seem standoffish.