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View submission: Trauma Victims are BORING!
I totally relate to your experience. I feel the conversations very forced and I have to put on a performance to keep other people interest. But deep down I always feel that I will never be lovable.
I believe this happens because I have not developed a stable sense of self and the ability to connect with another human being. I am afraid to my deepest core and I can never lower my guard down. If the fear is there, connection becomes very difficult. Establishing emotional security is the first step. If I feel secure within myself, I will be able to connect as well.
Establishing emotional security is a unique path. Unconditional love from pets, dancing, psychedelics, religion, 12 step groups and martial arts might help immensely. But ultimately we have to discover for ourselves what works for us. Praying for you 🙏
Comment by akshit_799 at 06/02/2025 at 03:59 UTC
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I Can relate, thankyou❤️