Comment by dylan_dumbest on 27/01/2025 at 03:16 UTC

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Not to mention their sperm quality does decrease with age! Just because they can conceive into their 50’s doesn’t mean it’s optimal at all. Also how old does he want to be at his kids’ graduation and does he want to know potential future grandkids.

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Comment by haleorshine at 27/01/2025 at 04:13 UTC

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Yeah, some dudes have this idea that men can just carry on having babies until they die of old age and that women just become sterile at age 35 or whatever. When you hear about 80 year old men having babies, it's not every 80yo man who can do it, and it's not good for the children, and probably not a healthy relationship with the mother.

Comment by Pyramidinternational at 27/01/2025 at 03:51 UTC

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Pffttt you’re acting like he’s thinking of the impact he’s have on someone else’s life. Didn’t you know people are only for personal use!? How dare you imply the people around him have their own needs. Lol

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Comment by Vickenviking at 27/01/2025 at 10:17 UTC

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Many of those arguments are sort of valid against anyone getting kids late though, including women having kids in their forties. The guy did talk to a woman (the OP) 5 years older than him. Thats the only evidence we have of actual preference.

Comment by Antiantiai at 27/01/2025 at 20:44 UTC

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This guy is 34. Where is this old 50 year old shit coming from?

Even if he waits a few years to start a family, being in your late 30s isn't too old at all.